February’s lineup is steeped in romance, kink, and playful debauchery in the spirit of Saint Valentine. This month, we’ve gathered an eclectic mix of film screenings, pole performances, literary events, Valentine’s markets, workshops, figure drawing, and play parties. Plus, for those on the West Coast, a few standout events in Los Angeles. Get out there, make new connections, and indulge in something deliciously wicked.
*As always, double-check event details before you go, and reach out to organizers with any questions. Petit Mort does not run these events.If you would like us to promote your erotic event in March, contact Leo@petitmort.com.
February 1
Sightlines: Kink Out Edition — An Afternoon of Short Films
In conjunction with Power of Leather Series: Exigent Sadism
The Slipper Room
167 Orchard St
Manhattan
Saturday, February 1 | Doors at 1 PM,
Screening at 2 PM
Subtle Asian Polers: The Forbidden Dream
A historic pole-dance/aerial variety show featuring an all-AAPI cast.
The Red Pavilion,
1241 Flushing Ave,
Brooklyn
Saturday, February 1 | 5:45–7:45 PM
Silky: A Valentine’s Day Leather-queer Market
Leather, chainmail, lingerie, and more. Masks required.
349 Suydam St, 3L,
Brooklyn
(up two flights of stairs)
Saturday, February 1 | 12–5 PM
February 6
baby ZINE release party + reading
NYFW meets Valentines special
7pm
9 Monroe Street
(street level basement entrance)
Manhattan
FREE
February 8
My BDSM Valentine, A Cabaret presented in partnership with Venus Cuffs
A decadent show to spice up your Valentine’s Day plans.
Joe’s Pub
425 Lafayette St
Manhattan
Saturday, February 8 | 9:30 PM
A Naughty Valentine’s Pop-Up
Size-inclusive vintage, boudoir photography, tarot readings, upcycled jewelry, and more.
Caffeine Underground
447 Central Ave
Brooklyn
Saturday, February 8 | 12–6 PMFree
Haus of Divine: Creepy Gals Solo Show Opening Night
A pink goth fantasy hosted by Linda, featuring drag queens and fetish models.
Superchief Gallery
1965 S Los Angeles St
LOS ANGELES
Saturday, February 8 | 7–11 PM
(art show runs through March 9)
More info: @creepy.gals on Instagram
February 10
F**! Your Taxes: A SWer Tax and Budgeting Workshop
A tax and budgeting session exclusively for SWers, followed by a mix-and-mingle.
MayDay Space,
176 St Nicholas Ave,
Brooklyn
Monday, February 10 | 4–7 PM
Suggested donation: $10–$50 (no one turned away)
February 11
Fetish Figure Drawing: Spicy Edition
A provocative BYOB live-model drink-and-draw experience.
Hit Me Up Space,
120 Walker St,
Chinatown, NYC
Tuesday, February 11 | 8 PM
February 12
Bad Romance: A Villainous Valentine’s Soiree
A social mixer for ENM, polyam, and non-traditional folx, featuring performances and party games.
The Red Pavilion,
1241 Flushing Ave,
Brooklyn,
Thursday, February 12 | 7 PM–12 AM
Valley Latini’s Open Decks: Baddie Night
A night of DJ sets, tarot readings, and baddie attire.
Thursday, February 12 | 10 PM
RSVP for location
Bed Chamber Jam – An Underground Classical Rave x Experimental Lingerie Show
A chamber music concert meets experimental lingerie fashion show, with a French house afterparty.
Thursday, February 12 | 7 PM–12 AM
LOS ANGELES
Tickets (location released after purchase)
February 13
Spice it Up: A Class Presented by Venus Cuffs
A workshop on safely navigating kinky play.
Lovejoys
412 Troutman St
Brooklyn
Thursday, February 13 | 5 PM
Shotgun Wedding: A Bushwick Dance Party
A sexy, Vegas-style Valentine’s bash hosted by PLAYGIRL.JADE
Bar, 4
Stuyvesant Ave
Brooklyn
Thursday, February 13 | 10 PM–3 AM
Eros Unbound: Erotic Readings and Confessions
Hosted by sex expert Laura Desiree,
featuring interactive writing prompts and sensual storytelling
The Red Pavilion
1241 Flushing Ave
Brooklyn
Thursday, February 13 | 9 PM–12 AM
February 15th
Decolonizing Workshop Series: Decolonizing Sex
This interactive workshop is the first in a 3 part series exploring sex, gender, and pleasure through a transformative justice lens. There will be free STI / HIV testing. Hosted by Logina Mostafa of Queering Existentialism and Nikita Fernandes, sex therapist and pysychotherapist.
Saturday, February 15th, 1-4pm
Fulton Grand Bar
1011 Fulton St, Brooklyn, NY
Inamorata, A Night of Brutal Romance : A Fetish Play Party
Societe Anonyme hosts Inamorata, a Valentine’s Weekend play event for lovers, fetishists, and purveyors of the profane. Give into your most amorous desires with an evening of romance, heavy fetish, steamy scenes, and intoxicating atmosphere. Application required to attend.
Saturday, February 15th, 9pm-3am
Chinatown
(location provided after approved)
February 22nd
Lust Caution: A Neo Noir Cabaret
Get lost in the seductive world of Lust Caution and immerse yourself in a captivating erotic cabaret featuring a rotating cast of nightlife luminaries performing live burlesque, aerial, cirque, sideshow and ritual theater. Never see the same show twice - each show features a new lineup!
Saturday, February 22nd,
8:30-10:30pm
The Red Pavillion
1241 Flushing Ave
Brooklyn
Company XIV Presents: Queen of Hearts- A Baroque Burlesque Adventure in Wonderland
Fall down a rabbit hole of sensual wonders and surreal delights at Queen of Hearts, Company XIV’s sumptuous ode to Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll. Peer into a decadent dreamworld laced with a mesmerizing blend of stunning circus, shining chanteuses, brilliant burlesque, classical dance, and lavish design.
Various dates throughout February
Company XIV
383 Troutman St
Brooklyn